Separation & Divorce

Separating two lives is hard. Separating two digital lives is the part no one handles.

When a marriage ends, the access doesn't. Whether you're planning ahead or you've already seen something you weren't meant to, we close the devices, accounts, and shared plans that stay open — in person, in a single day, before any of it reaches court.

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In person only · No remote access · No cloud · No logs · No app

What's actually at risk

It isn't hacking. It's access that outlived the marriage.

A shared life leaves shared doors — and almost none of them were built to close when the relationship ended. In a contested separation, three kinds of access do the most damage.

Sessions and devices — a logged-in account on a home computer, a tablet the children use, a backup that still syncs to a device they hold.
Shared and family plans — Apple Family, Microsoft family groups, Google, mobile-carrier and cloud plans that quietly expose location, photos, and files across everyone on them.
What they already know — your PIN, your security answers, the password you've used since 2017, the face or fingerprint registered on a device in the house.

None of this requires skill, software, or a private investigator — though an investigator will use every one of them. It only requires that the door was never closed.

How it actually happens

The password from a street she used to live on

Her password was the name of a street she'd lived on in 2009, with a number on the end she'd never changed. It opened her Instagram — which she'd handed him years ago, so he could post photos of the kids. After they separated he typed it into her email, almost idly. It opened. Then her cloud drive, where, folder by folder, he found three months of quiet work with her attorney: the valuations, the statements she hadn't disclosed, the strategy that only held if he never saw it. He saw all of it. She didn't know until it surfaced in court.

The small blue dot

She never turned off location sharing. Why would she — they'd shared it since their first year together, a small blue dot each could glance at, reassuring once. When she signed the lease on a flat she'd told no one about, the dot moved with her. He didn't follow her; he didn't have to. He simply knew the address before her lawyer sent it — and the filing was already waiting when it arrived.

What we do

We find every open door and close it — in a day, with you present.

Dr. Tabansky maps every device, account, and shared plan tied to your situation, and — where it matters — how exposure is happening right now. Then everything is hardened in your presence: sessions ended, plans separated, access you didn't know existed shut down, a physical security key issued so your accounts hold even if a password is already known.

You leave with a signed Certificate of Hardening — formal documentation of every measure applied, dated for your legal file.

Working with a family-law attorney? The Certificate documents your security posture for the file. How we work with attorneys →

Protection

Most separation cases are covered by Personal Shield (₪15,000), which secures one person, the primary device, and all accounts. Where a home network, vehicle, or wider household is involved, higher tiers apply. A Threat Assessment is ₪3,500, credited in full toward any protection tier within 14 days.

See the four protection tiers →

Questions

Can you get into my spouse's phone, or recover what they took?

No. The work is entirely defensive — we secure your devices and accounts only. We never access anyone else's.

I think they're already reading my messages. Is it too late?

No. We close the access now and check what's currently reaching your devices, so it stops here.

Will they know I did this?

Hardening your own devices is invisible from the outside. Ending a session or separating a family plan looks like ordinary account maintenance.

Can it be done before I file?

Yes, and that's the strongest position. The earlier the doors close, the less there is to use.

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